I can feel the 60S looming. In my profession, I've just moved along with my age. By thinking in decades, rather than whether someone's 42 or 47, you can give yourself a whole 10 years to turn yourself around in.

We all know now that people can look good for their age. It isn't so extraordinary, I don't know why people go on about it so much.

After all my various relationships I find myself now home alone.

You can love more than one person in your life, but things will be different. There'll be a different dynamic. Needs and desires change.

However successful you are, there is no substitute for a close relationship. We all need them.