Martha Beck
  • We virtually never feel our age, but thinking that we should can lead to disaster.

  • Absolutely lonely people have few personal interactions of any kind.

  • No one else can take risks for us, or face our losses on our behalf, or give us self-esteem. No one can spare us from life's slings and arrows, and when death comes, we meet it alone.

  • Allowing children to show their guilt, show their grief, show their anger, takes the sting out of the situation.

  • Anger elicits anger, fear elicits fear, no matter how well meaning we may be.