Why does a woman work ten years to change a man's habits and then complain that he's not the man she married?

I've been called many names like perfectionist, difficult and obsessive. I think it takes obsession, takes searching for the details for any artist to be good.

Why does a woman work ten years to change a man's habits and then complain that he's not the man she married?

Just like my father, I've always loved education. In school I was a member of the honor society.

I go by instinct - I don't worry about experience.