John Updike
  • Most of American life consists of driving somewhere and then returning home, wondering why the hell you went.

  • A leader is one who, out of madness or goodness, volunteers to take upon himself the woe of the people. There are few men so foolish, hence the erratic quality of leadership in the world.

  • We are most alive when we're in love.

  • Every marriage tends to consist of an aristocrat and a peasant. Of a teacher and a learner.

  • That a marriage ends is less than ideal but all things end under heaven, and if temporality is held to be invalidating, then nothing real succeeds.