Patti Stanger
  • We go on dates thinking that person is our future husband or wife, without getting to know them, as we live in a fantasy and an illusion of romance.

  • A ring means a commitment. But more than that, it means that you've talked about your shared future and have decided together on a shared vision of it.

  • It's hard for women who make a lot of money and make decisions all day long, then they have to come home and be 'Stupid Sally.' Men need respect, and they need to know that they can lead in the relationship, so even if they don't make the most money they need to be able to call the shots.

  • I'm an advocate for gay marriage. I have more gay friends than Carter has pills.

  • On both 'The Bachelor' and 'The Bachelorette,' it seems like proposing marriage is equivalent to saying, 'Let's date.' Everyone knows those aren't the same things.