Apparently, one in five people in the world are Chinese. And there are five people in my family, so it must be one of them. It's either my mum or my dad. Or my older brother, Colin. Or my younger brother, Ho-Chan-Chu. But I think it's Colin.

If you have autism in the family history, you still vaccinate. Delay it a bit, space them out.

I am blessed to have so many great things in my life - family, friends and God. All will be in my thoughts daily.

At best the family teaches the finest things human beings can learn from one another generosity and love. But it is also, all too often, where we learn nasty things like hate, rage and shame.

I say, If everybody in this house lives where it's God first, friends and family second and you third, we won't ever have an argument.