If you say, I'm for equal pay, that's a reform. But if you say. I'm a feminist, that's a transformation of society.

I've yet to be on a campus where most women weren't worrying about some aspect of combining marriage, children, and a career. I've yet to find one where many men were worrying about the same thing.

Childbirth is more admirable than conquest, more amazing than self-defense, and as courageous as either one.

Some of us are becoming the men we wanted to marry.

The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn.